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Mental Health & Wellness During Pregnancy & Parenthood

Mental Health and Well Being

Just like we all have physical health, we all have mental health (our thoughts and feelings). Mental health is not “good” or “bad” only. It changes, just like physical health. Sometimes we feel strong and well. Sometimes we struggle. 

Mental health is on a spectrum: 

  • On one end, we may feel well, happy, and calm.
  • In the middle, we may feel stressed, tired, or worried.
  • On the other end, we may feel very unwell and need extra help. 

Positive mental health is when we feel good most of the time, can handle stress, have energy, and enjoy life. It does not mean we never feel sad or worried — it means we have ways to cope and still do the things that matter to us. 

Having positive mental health is essential for you, those around you, and your child. Your mental health affects how you think, feel, connect with others, and care for your family. 

  • stay active
  • eat nutritious foods
  • sleep and rest
  • talk to someone you trust
  • build a support system
  • ask for help when needed
  • focus on one task at a time
  • try new and fun activities
  • take short breaks
  • stay connected with your partner/family and friends 

Learn More 

Post-partum Mood Disorders

It is normal to feel emotional after birth. The baby blues are a very common experience after childbirth, affecting many new parents with feelings of sadness, mood swings, or tearfulness in the first few days after birth. Baby blues usually resolve on their own within about two weeks.  

If symptoms are intense or last longer, it may be a postpartum mood disorder. This can happen during pregnancy or up to a year after birth—and affect partners too. 

  • feeling unlike yourself
  • trouble sleeping even when tired
  • loss of joy or interest
  • feeling hopeless, anxious, or overwhelmed
  • guilt or shame about parenting
  • struggling to bond with your baby
  • thoughts of harming yourself or your baby 

Screening Tool for Postpartum Depression from E-Mental Health is a helpful tool that includes a checklist that can help assess your mental state.  

Here are some supportive things you can do as a support person when someone you care about may be struggling with their mental health: 

  • Support and listen without judgment.
  • Encourage your loved one to share how they are feeling with their healthcare provider.
  • Learn about postpartum mental health.
  • Support is available for partners, families, and friends too. 

Here is a list of support that is available if you are struggling: 

In crisis 

Everyone has ups and downs. Asking for help is a sign of strength—not weakness. If you are having thoughts of suicide or of harming yourself or others, you can call:  

  • 988 - Mental Health Crisis Line (24/7) 

  • 1-888-829-7484 - Huron Perth Crisis Intervention 

Healthy Relationships

Life gets busier with a child, and it is important to make time for yourself and your relationships. Whether you are parenting alone or with a partner, adult connections still are important. Knowing the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships helps support your mental health, well-being, and safety. 

Healthy Relationship Unhealthy Relationship
respects your feelings and opinions  ignores or belittles your feelings 
listens and communicates openly  yells, insults, or shuts down communication 
supports your choices and independence  controls what you do, where you go, and who you see 
never uses threats, violence, or manipulation  uses threats of harm, suicide, or violence to control you 
trusts you and earns your trust  is overly jealous or possessive 
spends time with you willingly  uses guilt or pressure to control your time 
says positive, kind things to and about you  calls you names or constantly criticizes you 
allows personal freedom and activities  tracks your online activity or isolates you 
respects your sexual boundaries every time  forces or pressures you into sex 
encourages your well-being and growth  drains your confidence and self-esteem 

In immediate danger, call 9-1-1 

Learn More: 

Maintain Healthy Relationships | Alberta Health Services 

 

Contact Us

Huron Perth Public Health

Huron Office
77722B London Road, RR #5, Clinton, ON
N0M 1L0

Perth Office
653 West Gore St., Stratford ON N5A 1L4
Toll-free 1-888-221-2133
askhpph@hpph.ca

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